So what you should conclude, if you haven't already concluded, or you are a moron that doesn't see the forest for the trees after reading the links, is that I am notsomuch with the relationships. I'm not particularly good at them. (And by 'not particularly good' I mean BWAHAHAHAHAHA!) I am not one of those people for whom relationships come easy. I have to work sincerely hard at them. Like, HARD. Not like just regular hard. I'm talking straight up boot camp style work. I certainly wish that wasn't the case, but apparently you can't have nice tits AND be Relationship Girl.
Talking to my co-worker today she said something that struck me. She was talking about the issues that she has been having with her boyfriend and she said to me, "I am not sure that I am the relationship type. I don't know if I am all that comfortable with the idea of being had."
I thought it was interesting. I don't think I have a particular problem with "being had" but I am not all that certain that I am a "relationship type". Is there a "type" that fits best in a relationship?
I hate checking in. I'm not big on being emotionally available or "talking". I'm not particularly fond of being responsible for other people
So I pose these questions. Is there a "type" of person who fits in a relationship? And we aren't considering cheaters or liars or people who are commitment-phobic. We're talking straight up personality traits that lend themselves to serial monogamy. And furthermore, are you one of those types? What have you had to change for love?
And why isn't there a class or something that serves Grey Goose and figures out this shit for me?